recap vleaz!

August 19th, 2007

for two weeks, my sched has been really very busy with both work and personal stuffs. from movies to dining to activities. some may be very interesting and some are those we say its very disappointing let me start it off with:

MOVIES:

A LOVE STORY. With the community i am with now, our fellowship was a date with "a love story". people really do expect that angelia panganiban was the mistress here trying to get in the lives of the couple played by aga muhlach and maricel soriano. here, there’s a twist in the story. ok, i may be unfair to those who havent seen but im sorry i have to spill this out–NO! its not angelica panganiban the sexy mistress here rather its maricel soriano. the story tells us that not all men’s mistresses are oung and sexy and beautiful that they are just looking to but some they tried to find someone who can be there with them. so for those married couple out there, try to take some time with your hubbies.

RUSH HOUR. dad and i watched this movie together and we both enjoyed the funny stunts and tactics of jackie chan and bubbly chris tucker. ey! tucker did gain weight and it was a good to see him that way. the ambassador’s daughter also  grown up young lady here letting chan to hold on to his promise to get back to those people who hurt the ambassador.

DINING:

SUENO. Dining at Sueno with my sis who went home from Iloilo was also one relaxing moment. The place was cozy and nice, the food was great (especialy the fish fillet with cream cheese) and very affordable.

MCDONALD’s. Its nice that McDonald’s bring back the twister fries. Its one of my favorite at mcdonald’s. I wish mcdo wouldnt take it away and make it as the all time favorite!

KUSINA 13. Like the squid sisig. its tastier and lot of milk and cheese. yummy! gotta get back there!

ACTIVITIES.

RC launched an exclusive SIM. Riverside College recently launched their MyRiverside Sim in partner with Globe Telecom. The school ordered 5,000 sims exclusive for their students. This is the first in the history of telecommunications where the students can avail of the cheaper rates in SMS and call. In the morning, a presscon was held at the Riverside college little theater where La carlota drumbeaters welcome the guests and friends from the press. In the afternoon, students were requested to stay int the quadrangle to join the fun and excitement GLOBE has repared for them. Local talents like DUst 22 and JAvaskaggs performed and ake the students danced and jive with the party and reggae songs prepared by the band. THe concert was hosted by Sabado Barkada Kabarkada RJ Chua and Demos Sison. It was one disappointing event we ever handled as lots of demand we get from the Globe peeps. (eew!) We invited top press from TV/Radio and Publications, during the Q&A there are questions that Globe management cant give the answer the press expected so our friends from press threw more questions. They put the blame on the TPA which we only did our part in inviting the press. BEsides ts the management of the press who assigned them and the questions was not scripted either. so why blae it to the weatherman? =) whoah, whatta! Its a small activity but it was very stressful and very disapointing. If globe is disaapointed, how much more for our part? They just keep on demanding this and that they even cant coordinate with us and actually pay their billings in the TPA. whoo!

BEACH. We had our office outing at Villarosa yesterday Ita was fun..so much fun where refillers and supervisors bonded together taking all the works set aside. A soaking wet afternoon happened as no one can ran away from the ritual of "tagbunganay" everytime may ara pool or sa beach.

RNG on the ground event. Through our friends from RMN, a song and dance of WOW paksiw na wow pak ka na ba contest happened at Brgy Mambulok singcnag airport last saturday. Selling and games were prepared in order to add hype during the activity. This was a last minute instruction where i can say "NO COMMENTO".

how do we love on our everyday life?

August 6th, 2007

HOW DO WE LOVE IN OUR EVERYDAY LIFE?

Have you seen "A walk to remember"? Do you remember the message the lead man gives to the girl he loves?
The message in the Corinthians about LOVE says so. The characteristis of LOVE that is. It is taken from 1 Corinthians 13: 4-7.
Loving our neighbor. Who are our neighbor, i may ask? Its not literally means that it is the people living besides our house.
It is not just our family..because they were there already with us from the start so we develop that instant feeling to
them, also, with our friends, loved ones and of course, the one we encountered mostly in our days. Or its not just during Christmas days we could give love.
One example is in our work place.

1. PATIENT - we should be slow to anger, able to give allowance for the shortcoming of others.
To be honest, my patience with my work is not that long enough when I am in front of my sibblings. Its different. I could easily
get mad at them but with the people in y work, i got this patience i didnt know where it came from. Working in a promo agency lets me
meet a lot of people-from our subordinates, our officemates up to our bosses to our clients. These people have different character which
we really have to be patient in dealing with them.

2. KIND - we should not have an attitude of criticism, but posture and speech that is upbuilding and encouraging.
In our field, "kind" is definitely a no-no. why? These people i may encounter might abuse or will not follow us anymore. But i proved it
all wrong. Deal with critics as positive. I mean don’t incur it to yourself that is so degrading. Or if you give critic, make sure it will help
the person you criticize in his or her life. Let that critic motivate him or her.
My boss is not the typical boss..he was waaaayyyy tooooo typical. All the critics, not only from him, i had heard–from good to worst.
I onced, really, kept it inside me that critics hurt me, but then i realized i have to listen to critics inorder to become stronger–that critics
will motivate me and become who i am today.

3. NOT JEALOUS - we should not covet what others have, or begrudging another for having something you do not have.
In every work place, there are always jealousy among employees to impress their superiors. Quote me on this, but a lot of these in
our workplace. Doing something bad just to have that dream-of-all-dreams position or thing. Why not do something good inorder to impress
your superiors.

4. NOT POMPOUS OR INFLATED - should be humble, not thinking of your own importance, more impressed with your own unworthiness
than merit.
Always be proud of what you can do, but not judge yourself according to your weaknesses or else what weakens you will drive you away
from your goal. Stay your head up.

5. NOT RUDE - accord honor and respect to one another.
In meeting people in our everyday lives in the office, different characterisitics I have already meet. There’s this one person who claims his
instant prize of a conditioner sachet. He was so rude enough tht if you dont know how to control, you will fall down your knees and cry,
"Oh, GOD! Why have you forsaken me?". But I tried to become polite and respectful as much as possible.

6. NOT SELF-SEEKING - not having your rights met, but more on your duties.
Don’t just think about yourself. like in my work, i dont just see one activity being successful without the help of those pepole working for
me inorder to execute an activity brilliantly.

7. NOT QUICK TEMPERED - able to master your emotions and feelings
The people surrounds me here at the office is 80% "sip-sip". They are the ones who can brag about themselves nicely to the management
by stepping others. there are some that they act on something just to get your sympathy. We cant blame them neither we cant control. Every
workplace there’s somebody who are just like them. If you cannot control your temper or your emotions with these people, pity on you.
this is what we can say about you "dagdag ka gid!" I dont say that you have to compete with them in bragging yourself up there, but just
make sure that if you ecountered this, reason out and just let go–concious free.

8. NOT BROOD OVER INJURY - not holding grudges or resentments.
If you feel that something annoying on your officemates..or towards the people under you. Try to control to manage it so that you can
work easily without that uncomfortable feeling you kept inside there. I, honestly, have some resentments or grudges kept inside me towards
co workers, but it made me uneasy to work especially when you’re dealing with them. Try to learn to slowly forgive and forget whatever
thngs you didnt patch up for so both of you can work ok.

9. NOT REJOICING OVER WRONGDOING - always seeking the good of others, even enemies
Handling people is very difficult, especially when you dont have that traits of being a superior. But I earned one thing in this field. Being
that strict bossy type, somehow, doesnt work sometimes. When one subordinate of yours have mistakes, let him/her know that they are
wrong. Try to talk to them how did they fail you as their boss. Of course, let that mistakes motivate them to become good in their work.
Dont let their mistakes feel them that they are the worst employees. Indi sila pag dagdaga na gid but help them.

10. REJOICES WITH THE TRUTH - telling the truth to one another
If you dont like this workmate of yours, why not tell him or her directly to his/her face. In that, she  or he may know what was wrong with themselves.

11. FORBEARS - can bear insult, injury, disappointment, without taking counter action; has self control. Sometimes, our workmates hurt us so badly that sometimes we tend to decide of quitting and revenge.

12. TRUSTS - believing the best about other people
How weak a person is we should still give trust to their capabilities. Of curse, we should also help them be the best about theirselves.
People may realize how trust was given to hem, this may lead them to respect you because of the trust you give to them. But others, we may not control it, but abuses the goodness we showed to them–what we do? read no. 10.

13. HOPES - having a positive attitude towards life and problems; can remain joyful and peaceful under any circumstances
No matter what circumstances we encountered in our work, we should still have this attitude in looking forward the best result despite of all the negative things happening…even the positive ones.

14. ENDURES - can bear things, not with passive resignation but with triumphant fortitude.
We should know how to handle things..even how worst it is, we should not let these things pull us down but we should solve this things triumphantly.

Its not that we SHOULD do this right away but we SHOULD TRY to do this or learn how to claim these characteristics. Loving your
neighbor is one commandment Hod imposes. If people doesnt appreciate these things you’ve showed at least God knows how you tried to.