5 finger prayer

October 31st, 2005

1. Your thumb is nearest to you-So begin your prayers by praying for those closest to you. They are the easiest to remember. To pray for our loved ones is a sweet duty.

2. the net finger is the pointing finger-Pray for those who teach, instruct and heal. This includes teachers, dentists, physicians and ministers. They need support and wisdom in pointing others in right direction. Keep them in your prayers.

3. The next finger is the tallest finger-It remind us of our leaders. Pray for the president, leaders in business and industry, and administrators. These people shape our nation and guide public opinion. They need God’s guidance.

4. The fourth finger is our ring finger-Surprising to many is the fact that this is our weakest finger as any piano teacher can testify. It should remind us to pray for those who are weak, in trouble or pain. They need your prayers day and night. You cannot pray too much for them.

5. And lastly comes our little finger, the smallest finger of all-Which is where we should place ourselves in relation to God and others, as the Bible says, "The least shall be the greatest among you." Your pinkie should remind you to pray for yourself. By the time you have prayed for the other four groups, your own needs will be put into proper perspective and you will be able to pray for yourself more effectively.

…5 rules to happy…

October 31st, 2005

Free your heart from hatred

Free your mind from worries

Live simply

Give more

Expect less

il do it on my own

October 31st, 2005

I’m wiser now
I’m not the foolish girl you used to know
So long ago
I’m stronger now
I’ve learned from my mistakes which way to go
And I should know
I put myself aside to do it your way
But now I need to do it all alone

And I am not afraid to try it on my own
I don’t care if I’m right or wrong
I’ll live my life the way I feel
No matter what I’ll keep it real you know
Time for me to do it on my own

It’s over now
I can’t go back to living through your eyes
Too many lines
And if you don’t know by now
I can’t go back to being someone else
Not anymore
I never had a chance to do things my way
So now it’s time for me to take control

Oh I start again go back to one
I’m running things my way
Can’t stop me now, I’ve just begun
Don’t even think about it
There ain’t no way about it
I’m taking names, the ones of mine
Yes I’m gonna take my turn
It’s time for me to finally stand alone, stand alone

POP FIESTA

October 7th, 2005

Catch Barbie Almalbis, Kitchie Nadal, 604, Jed Madela, Jimmy Bondoc and Frenchie Dy at UNO-R Amphitheater on October 16, 2005, 7pm.

sMiles

October 7th, 2005

..la lang…just wanted to share what i did this day…

i send out smikles and hug ten people this day…just want to share my happiness i feel today…coz there are many reasons to smile =)

..d tanan na send out ko smiles..kay sleepy na gd ang mga big eyes ko…i went out..merry-making with my bro…la d b sis ko…naks! how i miss her and our gimiks!!! miss my dud too…he’s our drinking companion!!

…work naman tomorrow!! how i wish GMA can impose a one month vacation with pay!!! WOW!!!

goodnight

What it means to say I LOVE YOU…..

October 6th, 2005

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After 21 years of marriage, I discovered new way of keeping alive the Spark of love. 

A little while ago I had started to go out with another woman.  It was really my wife’s idea.  "I know that you love her," she said one day, taking me by surprise.  "But I love YOU," I protested.  "I know, but you also love her."

The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my mother, who has been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my three children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally.  That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie.  "What’s wrong, are you well?" she asked.  My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign of bad news.  "I thought that it would be pleasant to pass some time with you," I responded.  " Just the two of us." She thought about it for a moment then said "I would like that very much." 

That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit  nervous.  When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date.  She waited in the door with her coat on.  She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last wedding anniversary.  She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angel’s.  "I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were impressed," she said, as she got into the car.  "They can’t wait to hear about our meeting". 

We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cozy.  My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady.  After we sat down, I had to read the menu to her.  Her eyes could only read large print.  Half way through the entree, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring at me.  A nostalgic smile was on her lips.  "It was I who used to have to read the menu when you were small," she said.  "Then it’s time for you to relax and let me return the favor," I responded.  During the dinner we had an agreeable conversation, nothing extraordinary - but catching up on recent events of each others lives.  We talked so much that we missed the movie.  As we arrived at her house later, she said, "I’ll go out with you again, but only if you let me invite you".  I agreed. 

"How was your dinner date?" asked my wife when I got home.  "Very nice.  Much more so than I could have imagined," I answered. 

A few days later my mother died of a massive heart attack.  It happened so suddenly that I didn’t have a chance to do anything for her.  Some time later I received an envelope with copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place mother and I had dined.  An attached note said: "I paid this bill in advance.  I was almost sure that I couldn’t be there but, nevertheless, I paid for two plates - one for you and the other for your wife.  You will never know what that night meant to me.  I love you."

At that moment I understood the importance of saying, in time: "I LOVE YOU" and giving our loved ones the time that they deserve.  Nothing in life is more important than God and your family and friends.  Give them the time they deserve, because these things cannot be put off ’til "some other time".  Someone once said "I’ve learned that, regardless of your relationship with your parents, you’ll miss them when they’re gone from your life.  I think this is true with your in-laws, grandchildren, sisters, brothers and your friends.  Anyone that means something to you - you should spend time with them and let them know how much they mean to you as often as you can. "